Posted by Ilana R. Wieder on 7/11/2025 to
Meet a Kar-Ben Author
In my family, Shabbat is a time to enjoy good food, to spend time with friends and
family and to allow ourselves to just be. On Shabbat afternoons, we love
playing board games, reading books, and playing with our dog, Mitzi.
During the week, we get busy checking off our to-do list, going to school and work and
attending enrichment classes or events. When we take Mitzi in the car with us,
we notice she loves howling along with the music we play in the car. Sometimes
we think it’s cute, other times we get a bit annoyed because her howls are not
in sync with the songs, so we tell her to hush and shush.
But on Shabbat, we take Mitzi on longer walks, we play catch with her, and we give
her plenty of belly rubs.
“Do you think Mitzi loves Shabbat as much as we do?” My son asked me one day.
“I think Shabbat is her favorite day of the week.” I answered.
Knowing how much Mitzi loves to sing, I began to wonder what it would be like if there
was a puppy who wanted to sing every day but heard grownups tell her to hush
and shush? I named the puppy Shira because it means song in Hebrew.
In SHIRA THE SINGING PUPPY, Shira has to wait all the way until the end of Shabbat
when she can finally sing and howl into the bright starry night. It is not
until Havdalah, when her family sings songs of hope for a good week, that Shira
gets to sing. Sometimes, after the hustle of a busy week, it takes time for us
to really settle into ourselves. Sometimes it takes a full 24 hours to fully
relax and reconnect with who we truly are.
Also, in my family, we like to teach our kids the difference between prayer and song.
When we bless the candles, the kiddush cup or the Challah, we are putting our
attention on what is most deep and holy. The prayer is meant to elevate us and
needs to be treated with respect. We have Shira the puppy wait until Havdalah
to howl to teach our children the value of having sacred and holy time. As we
separate the Holy from the mundane, we distinguish between a time to pray and a
time to sing.
I have so much gratitude to Joni Sussman for believing in my story and helping me
shape it to its final product.
